Not every individual grows up after challenging events

Psychologist Özge Sert said, “Psychotherapy can help individuals make sense of what they have been through, come out of this process stronger and develop awareness that supports their growth. Growth after challenging situations is not a process that every individual can experience.”

Growing from experiences is not the same for everyone. Some people experience more difficult moments.

“Challenging situations are an integral part of life”

Psychologist Özge Sert from Onma Psychology made statements on the subject. Psychologist Sert said, “What does not kill can sometimes strengthen. Challenging situations are of course an integral part of life. But as is well known, challenging life events can not only leave individuals emotionally scarred, but also cause them to re-evaluate the meaning of life. Growing up as a result of challenging situations can help people build a stronger sense of self by increasing their psychological resilience.”

“Growth is the result of transformative power”

Emphasizing that challenging experiences have a transformative side, Sert said: “Challenging events can upset individuals' existing life patterns and this can create profound changes in the inner world of the individual. However, some individuals are not content to simply bounce back from these crisis situations, but make sense of these experiences with greater inner strength and wisdom. The concept of growth is the result of this transformative power. In this process, individuals can gain a greater perspective on their lives, increase their capacity for empathy and develop a deeper awareness of the meaning of life.”

“Those who develop resilience can survive despite difficulties”

Listing the factors that support growth after challenging experiences, Psychologist Özge Sert then said the following:

“Each individual may react differently to the growth process after challenging situations. Some factors that affect growth are social support, personality traits, coping strategies. Also

Growth after challenging situations is closely related to psychological resilience. Resilience is an individual's ability to be flexible in the face of stressful and challenging events. Like the flexible and strong net of a trampoline, resilience protects us in the face of adversity, allowing us to bounce higher with each jump. People who develop resilience can survive despite the challenges they face, regulate their emotions more easily and move on with their lives.”

“Personal development takes shape”

Emphasizing that growth occurs in many different areas after challenging situations, Psychologist Sert said, “Growth can take place in different areas. These areas shape the way individuals give meaning to their lives and their personal development. Personal development can take shape in 3 different areas: deepening in relationships, new opportunities and personal empowerment.”

“Not everyone can grow after challenging events”

Pointing out that psychotherapy is very important, Psychologist Özge Sert then used the following statements:

“Professional support is very important for the realization of growth after challenging situations. Psychotherapy can help individuals make sense of what they have been through, come out of this process stronger and develop awareness that supports their growth. Therapists walking with the client through this process contributes to the emotional healing and positive transformation of the individual's experiences. Growth after challenging situations is not a process that every individual can experience. However, it is also possible to move through difficulties and develop from there. Challenging events, in their unseen aspect, can enable individuals to become stronger, more resilient and continue their lives with a more meaningful perspective. This process shows individuals that it is also possible to heal from pain.”

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